It’s an unfortunate truth that some marriages don’t last. This does not mean, however, that children should just resign themselves to thinking that they will lose one parent because of the divorce. Marriages may end, but being a parent should not. After you and your Lynwood family attorney have finalized the divorce, avoid using your lawyers from Feldman & Lee to work out your personal issues with your ex-spouse.
If you’re considering co-parenting, here are some pointers to always keep in mind:
During the formative years, traditions are important for children. Trick-or-treating, Thanksgiving dinners, holidays and birthdays are something they look forward to every year. A divorce shouldn’t drastically change these things. Yes, it may be impossible to keep things as they were, but at least try to be there for a few hours during your child’s birthday or on Christmas day, so they don’t feel abandoned by one of their parents.
New Partners Should Not Change Things
After the divorce, you may find a new person to share your life with. Make sure your new partner understands how important it is that you spend quality time with your kids. They should be supportive, and they should not show jealousy over you and your former spouse co-parenting your children. The ideal situation is for you and your former spouse to welcome your respective partners into your children’s life. This way, it would be like your kids would have two sets of parents to love and care for them.
Respect Is Important
When co-parenting, always remember to put your kids’ emotional needs first. Don’t show up with a scowl on your face because you are being forced to spend time with your spouse. Mutual respect is important. You do not want your children to feel like they are a burden to you.
Co-parenting is a viable option for parents who care for their children’s best interest. Children shouldn’t have to feel like they’re losing a parent during a divorce. Regardless of who gets the most custody, children would still want a relationship with both parents.